Does everyone know that you can’t do anything about how you’re family thinks? The holidays are the worst for bringing all of this stuff into the open. It’s not because you’re parents are cis. It’s because they’re a different generation. Your children will feel the same regardless of how progressive you are. If you don’t like it, leave. You aren’t a hostage.
when a cishet comments on your post
do gays only ever talk about being gay?? like in my family no one asks about “future husbands” or “the gays” or any specifically heteronormative thing. we talk about everyday life and things people do: jobs, family, friends, kids. none of these things are exclusive to just straight people. you make it seem like people just go arounds asking about your sex life when honestly no one fucking cares. oh and if you havent come out to your family yet, why is it wrong to ask if you have a “boyfriend” or whatever? they are taking an interest in your life and want you to be happy but you make it seem like a bad thing but you are the one who hasnt informed them of what makes you happy.
when the cishets keep leaving their stupid unnecessary comments on your posts
“everyday life and things people do: jobs, family, friends, kids”
this just in, the gays don’t experience everyday life
also “you are the one who hasnt informed them of what makes you happy”
yikes, thanks for guilt-tripping me like its my fault that i havent come out to my homophobic parents and family yet
Well, to be fair, that IS on you. Like your parents have probably told you at some point, they can’t read your minds.
People are actually more accepting of homosexuality as a whole in this day and age than you might think. If you told them, they may or may not like it, but that doesn’t mean they’ll stop loving and supporting you.
You just gotta take that chance.
when the cishets think they know more about homophobia than you do
It’s a baby Jacana. They use those ridiculous stick-figur toes to evenly distribute their weight as they walk around on waterlillies and stuff. Like snowshoes, but for swamps.
Here’s an adult:
Another really interesting thing about Jacanas is that it’s the dad who does all the child rearing while mom goes off to lay more eggs. Amd their really good dads too! Plus look at how they Cary their babies around!:
I can’t even tell you how excited I was that they turned this book into a movie and it was good
I literally have absolutely no complaints with the movie at all. Once, my friend and I did comparisons from the book and the movie, and we found the only major difference was the fact that Stanley wasn’t heavy set when he arrived at the camp in the movie. The majority of the script is raw quotations from the book. This is my favorite book to movie adaptation and it did everything Percy Jackson, Inkheart, and The Golden Compass didn’t.
And the only reason Stanely wasn’t heavy set was because in the book he loses tons of weight and eventually ends up being almost thin. The director said he didn’t want to force an adolescent boy to lose weight on such a quick filming schedule, and L’bouf’s audition was so spot on, that they decided to go with a thinner Stanely from the beginning
And I’ll support directors actually giving a crap about their actor’s health.
Write a story that’s pure and beautiful but the last sentence makes it deeply disturbing.
she had a quiet beauty about her. her face was still as she gazed towards the ground. she seemed to float elegantly in the center of the room, all eyes on her at all times. she was the star that night. too bad it was because of that necklace of rope, tying her tightly to the ceiling.
